There’s a first time for everything, including the first time you spend the night with somebody. More times than often, the “first time” for everything is exciting, and even a little nerve wrecking. The more you fuss over it, the more you overthink it, the more you try to perfect it and odds are… it’s not going to be perfect. And at that point, you’re just going to be disappointed from the lack of perfection.
We’re here to help you avoid that disappointment. When you’re expecting someone to come over, there are certain steps and precautions you can take to make the night go as perfect as possible.
It shouldn’t be much of a shock that the first thing you need to do is set the mood. Whether its the candles, the music or a nice scent.. these little details will make the experience as great as possible. But what else? Read on to find out.
It’s important to start slow and not get ahead of yourself. Kissing is part of the basics. It’s a nice way to get into the mood and it helps start of the night the right way.
It’s the little things that really count. There’s nothing that gets a girl worked up than the sense of touch itself. The feeling of your hands on her body – whether its her hands, neck, torso or elsewhere – will have a greater effect on her than you’d expect.
3. Talk Dirty
Don’t underestimate the power of words. When you’re getting intimate, make sure you use your voice. Whisper what you’re going to do before you do it, and when you do it… it will be a lot more effective than you’d expect.
4. Compliment Her
It doesn’t take a genius that compliments are helpful. There’s no better way to make her feel good about herself than to tell her all the things you adore and admire about her. Surely, it will boost her confidence, both inside and outside of the bedroom. So make sure you take a break from the action, and take a second to compliment her eyes.
At the end of the day (or is it night?), you want to have a good time, and having a good time entails more than just getting action. Girls love a guy that can make them laugh. Too serious and you might just scare her away. Make sure you have fun, and keep things positive, optimistic and light-hearted.